I never really “got” poetry. We memorized poems in school. “Listen my children and you shall hear…” “Mighty Casey has struck out.” “Draw near and fear not,—this is I, The Lady of Shalott.”
I’ve read poems. The few poetry books I purchased or inherited were solely for use as a one-shot deal thing to read at an occasion. Infrequently a poem may have linked to a personal event. Humorous, dour, scary. I got that, but they all seemed so… far removed from how I viewed words.
So as much as I love to play with words, and am in awe of the power of words, and churn out essays and short stories, and create parodies of songs, and laugh at limericks, I’ve shied away from poetry. To read; to recite – yes. But to write? To really get deep meaning from a poem? Not for me.
And that decades-old thought turned to a belief. I could not be a poet. Even as I reveled in writing and published two books of which I am extremely proud, I turned away from poetry.
Gradually, in a kind of slow awakening, people brought me to the possibilities of a change of heart.
- My sister entered a poetry contest and won. A teaching colleague recited poems with glee.
- A writing colleague and I presented a writing workshop on “Red Ribbons and White Shoelaces.” The red ribbon was my childhood memory and white shoelaces were the theme in one of her prose poems.
This was getting interesting.
Over time, I seemed to have gathered a poetry book collection


- Bill Black, a cowboy poet and writing colleague, generously shared many ideas about poetry, making it seem more accessible.
- Paula Brown shared weekly about poems she is writing, revising, submitting, and getting published.
- Our hiking group created hiking haikus for fun – and it was fun!!
- A spiritual group colleague, Susan Seid, wrote haikus during morning mediation. Now she’s writing a book of haikus.
Poetry was seeping into my life.
- My yoga instructor, Trish Harris combines yoga, chants, and poetry- often, a Mary Oliver poem.
Mary Oliver’s “Wild Geese” describes the grace and uniformity in a flock of geese as all being part of the family of things. I think I have found a place in the family of poetry.
Our next meeting is coming up . I’m going over David White’s book The Heart Aroused. It’s filled with his poems and other gems. Sir Derek Walcott and Antonio Machado are in the running to share.
Ethel Lee-Miller blogs regularly about people, the power of words, and her writing life. She retired after 30 years of teaching, and semi-retired from coaching, and professional editing. Founder of the Eastside Tucson Writing Room based in Tucson AZ, she’s posted 100s of blogs, and is the author of Thinking of Miller Place, and Seedlings, Stories of Relationships. These days she writes to inspire, to connect with folks, teaching about the power of words, gathering writers together, and for the pure enjoyment of it. Ethel enjoys teaching, speaking, writing and storytelling at Odyssey Storytelling, Artists Standing Strong Together, Tucson Tellers of Tales, Center for Spiritual Living Tucson, her latest endeavor, New Story Pod, and anywhere there’s a mic or a Zoom room.
Ethel,
I’m happy to be included on your list. Inspiration happens in unexpected ways! This journey has reignited a creative outlet for me that began at age 15. Being around other people who love to write is encouraging! Thank you Ethel for encouraging me!
Susan Seid
Susan, Haiku and art and nature. It seems focal points are merging for you. It’s so nice to have you in our group to share this journey
Ethel
What a beautiful reflection -poetry truly helps us pause and feel more deeply. As someone who works in real estate, I often find that buying a home is a deeply emotional journey too. There’s a certain poetry to helping people find their place in the world. Thanks for the inspiration today.
You must be a treasure to your clients. The realtor who guided us had that talent? gift? of pulling out the threads of the details we needed for our new home. When I look around my home today, I know it softens and comforts me as I go about daily activities and as I write. I hope you continue to “help people find their place in the world.” Ethel